I use the PIKO, LocoRemote, RailBoss 4+ from gscalegraphics.net, Xnenpow and the discontinued Monocacy system. Yeah, I like to experiment.
The PIKO is mainly in PIKO locos that provided for an easy installation. PIKO may tend to be expensive, I paid $108 for the TX/RX combo earlier this year. Each remote is tied to one receiver.
I like the small size of the LocoRemote. One caution: watch the battery voltage very carefully. Their controls are rated for actual voltage, not nominal! For instance, the Maxi is rated for 15V MAXIMUM. A Li-Ion battery rated at 14.4 or 14.8 volts will fry it! Those batteries can peak at 16.8V when fully charged. LocoRemote explains this in their battery selection and wiring guide, but it's easy to overlook. I almost installed a 14.8V battery in a loco, but it wouldn't fit, so I went with 11.1V. I was lucky, I forgot the limitation. LocoRemote has sold to the US in the past, but aren't shipping right now due to parts shortages. You can use any device with a touch screen and Wi-Fi capability. I use Amazon fire tablets and even an old Windows cell phone without a SIM or service. The prices were better than PIKO, even with shipping and tariffs, but you'll need to check with them later.
The RailBoss 4+ is the most versatile. I use it mainly for main line engines. It has several features the others lack, but tends to be on the large side.
As for using Li-Ion batteries, get the better quality ones from a reputable supplier. I like the bulk LG batteries from batteryjunction.com to fit in battery holders or the KeepPower battery packs from illumn.com. ALWAYS buy batteries (lithium) with a built-in protection circuit. You could add your own, but it is hardly worth the expense and effort. Also, ALWAYS add a fuse in the battery circuit, like the PolySwitch fuses from Amazon. I have found the general consensus is that balance charging isn't needed for our railroad use.
Finally, I've tried some of the Xnenpow remotes from Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FKHKPXYV They're quite inexpensive and have worked well for me. I mostly use them for the locos I gift to the grandchildren or let them run on my railway. Far more limited than some of the better units and don't really have a good interface for a sound board, but a cheap way to get started.
You can get other sources from Garden Railroading News and
www.grnews.org. They have stopped publishing, but you can still download back issues as of today.
Take it slow, research your options and have fun!