Here you go - this is how I did mine: first, take out the lighting boards and snip off (and discard) ALL the components on the except for the actual bulb holders. That should leave them looking like this:
Now, on the actual circuit side of the board, unsolder the GREEN wire from its pad, and re-use some it to bridge across between the two points shown (you could actually solder it in several other positions instead, what you need to do is connect the BROWN wire's circuit track to the outermost track that runs around the top and sides of the board). Once you've done this, the existing brown and white leads become the two power wires for all the lights at that end of the loco, and you simply connect them to the relevant lighting terminals on the decoder.
Here's the actual installation of the XLS, speaker and manual volume control pot.
It's very simple, and seems to work OK on mine - hope it helps.
Note that I chose to put new 24volt bulbs in my loco, but if you keep the old 5volt ones be sure to adjust the lighting voltage CV on the decoder BEFORE you apply track power!!
Jon.