Glengrant said:
Not commenting on the fishiness, but this touches a little bit of a nag which is always ticking quietly away in the back of the delicate mechanism which I call "MY BRIAN". One day someone, somehow, will have to get rid of all my junk, and nobody in my family knows a damn thing about G-scale, nor anything about you lot either. Should one have a contingency plan? I dunno, it won't worry me, of course, but having ripped apart one railway, the double-oh, I know what tricky business it is, especially if one wants to get a fair disposal price. Sorry, morbid thoughts
It's a sobering but quite important thing to think about, as we're none of us getting any younger.....
I guess the best thing to do, if you can, is to nominate a trusted and preferably local-ish friend in the hobby, make sure that your family have their contact info, and ask them if they would see to the disposal of your railway stuff in a financially advantageous way, perhaps in return for a share of whatever funds come out of it (or, maybe their pick of a few choice bits from the collection?). Something along the lines of "if you will help my family get a fair price for all my stuff, you can have the 2-10-2 (or the live steamer, of whatever) for your time and trouble"?
Whatever you decide to do, make sure it's all clearly written down somewhere that people can find it.
You could always also list everything you have, with a rough idea of values at the time of writing - but if you do that, seal it up and give it to your solicitor with strict instructions that it's not to be opened until you are gone - otherwise you might just WISH you were dead....
Of course, it's not just the railway stuff that needs considering; I recently saw an online cartoon which advised having a good friend go through your stuff before your family does - the illustration was a daughter clearing her dad's shed, and finding three large boxes marked "P*rn", Extreme P*rn" and "Unforgivable P*rn".....
(Sorry for degenerating into jokes later in this post - it IS a serious subject!)
Jon.